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What Am I Here for In this World? 
Taking Responsibility - Live a Life of
Purpose and Meaning, Without Regret

In a moment of despair and crisis my 80 year old friend whispered, "This is not how I wanted my life to turn out."

Her grief was about roads not taken and joy not lived. I know many details about her life, so I knew that, even though she could not see it in the moment, there WERE things to feel good about. 

Times of crisis can cause us to be more honest, reflective and intentional.  And the struggle to create a life that feels purposeful and "right" is something the young and old, the wealthy and poor, the educated and uneducated, all wrestle with. 

Robert S. Hartman (1910 – 1973) was a philosopher, professor, and business leader who was nominated in 1973 for the Nobel Peace Prize. He pioneered the science of values (”Axiology”) as a field of study.

Hartman focused his work on defining how to live a balanced and meaningful life.  He guided his students to reflect on their answers to this question: 

What am I here for in this world?

Thinking about how to optimize and prioritize your values, and about the impact you want to make, provides a beautiful framework for natural decision making process in your daily life, helping you make choices and create a life without regrets.  

Licensed Professional Counselor Arthur R. Ellis, PhD studied axiology under Hartman while Hartman was a professor at the University of Tennessee in the late 1960's. In the Appendix of Freedom To Live: The Robert Hartman Story,  Ellis describes him this way:

"He was a person of formidable knowledge, intellectual intensity, and creative insight
all of which he used assiduously in the analysis and synthesis of data regarding his theory
of value.  
He was constantly scribbling notes on little pieces of paper (many of which are in the
Hartman Collection at the 
John C. Hodges Library Archives at U.T.) 
chuckling to himself about his latest revelation.  Above all, he was a person of
warmth and compassion who attempted to make the intrinsic a real part of his life."

Hartman acknowledged the power of knowledge (Thinking) and the social self (Doing), but he placed higher importance on building a strong inner self (Being). 

Hartman shared, "To be - is probably the most difficult and, at the same time, the most important task of our moral lives. In daily life, it is the highest maturity, and it is also very powerful for it can bring into play the infinity of your intrinsic Self."   He understood that when we are one with our self, we become at one with all living things.

He famously said, "Your inner self, your humbler Being,
is what makes dogs lick you. That's all." 

I first learned about Hartman 15 years ago when I became certified in his Hartman Value Profile and the science of Axiology (the Acumen science in TriMetrix) which is currently the most tangible product from Hartman's work. It's a road map for hiring for fit and leadership development, and can serve as a guide to living a fully realized life.

During that certification process, I knew that I'd found the work that was mine to do.

I could feel it in my mind, my body and my spirit. Hartman's work grabbed my heart and soul and has not 'let me go' since! My elderly friend's angst is exactly WHY it "grabbed" me, and continues to consume me even today. 

So, to my friends and colleagues everywhere, on those days when you wonder what you are here for, reach for personal meaning, connection, caring and compassion for yourself and others, first.

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